My dear friend, Deena, has lent me this section of her blog ---which I highly agree with--- so that all women of the world can be educated.

There are always the "roles." If I am totally off base on this, girls, let me know. But deep inside the farthest parts of your brain, there are places you don't usually even admit to thinking about.

Like there is always Mr. Flirt-Friend, that guy who you are friends with, but wonder at the possibilities and usually "harmlessly" flirt with. Neither of you take it seriously, but you always wonder "What if we did?"

Then there's Mr. Too-Good-To-Be-True. You know, that guy you know who you would do anything for and you think "Wow, no one is good enough for you." You wonder yourself if you could be good enough for him, but you know that, give the opportunity, you'd try your hardest. And seeing him with people who don't deserve him makes you sick.

Then there's Mr. Possibility who has shown interest but won't act on it. That's always annoying. You have no idea where he stands, but the minute you give up on that situation, something happens to make you interested again.

Next we have Mr. Friend-Only. This one is a hard one. He's the one that you know will always be there for you and you think "Wow, I wish I felt stronger about him because he would be so good to me." But no matter how much you want to like him more...you're just friends.

On to Mr. Complicated. This is the one you do NOT want to like but no matter how much you try, he keeps popping up in some other part of you mind. You can't get away from it. And nothing you do changes it. You can't ignore him because you're friends...but you don't want to ignore him anyway.


HAHA here's a great one. Mr. Fling. He's that guy that you like so much because he doesn't make you think. You don't have to analyze everything he says or does. You know nothing done is completely serious and you just have tons of fun with him because it's convenient. What's sad is that he sometimes turns into Mr. Complicated which creates a vicious cycle that causes major headaches.

Can we give a shout out to Mr. Bad-Boy. Definitely a controversial one, he is. He's that guy we'd never openly admit attraction to, but nonetheless, he fascinates us. Why? Maybe it's because he has that spark of carelessness we long to possess ourselves. Or maybe it's because he is the epitome of confidence in oneself. (We girls are not usually good at such things.) Regardless, we know we'd never have anything long-term with him. He's not a "long-term" kind of guy. But the thought of having him, no matter the length of time, seems to enthrall some of us.

Oh yeah... Mr. Jerk-Face. Truthfully, those of his kind don't deserve part of my blog, but for the sake of women everywhere, I will add him for example purposes only. He is the one we do offer our time and efforts to. He is the one who promises us that he will love us forever and never hurt us. But, sometimes things go wrong. And when they do, He is the one who turns around and stabs us in the back and leaves us to our broken heart. He can't end things in a dignified manner. No, Mr. Jerk-Face must leave our lives with a bang. And he does; if only the bang was something large and hard hitting him in the head...

Mr. Macho. We can't stand you. You're cocky, arrogant and downright disgusting to us. No, it doesn't matter that you have more biceps than a weightlifter or more money than most middle-aged businessmen. You only love yourself. But I guess that's good; it makes up for the lack of love you will get from us.

Helloooo Mr. Mysterious. You, by far, are one of my personal favorites. Girls everywhere seem to have men somewhat figured out, but you stump us all every time. We have no idea what your next move is or how you will react to things we do or say. That intrigues us...like you have no idea. It's hard to get close to you, but we want to more than you know. Or maybe you do... ;)

Dear Mr. Charmer,
We women love you. We cannot help ourselves. You make every single one of us feel like a million dollars. We know that seeing you means a compliment at the very least and therefore we look forward to the next time we see you with anticipation. You have "it"...that thing that draws us to your personality. It's a mixture of confidence to compliment us and the vulnerability it takes at the same time. In case you didn't catch it the first time, we love you.

Oh, and Mr. "I'm-Not-Like-Those-Other-Guys"...yes, you are.

Ok, that sums up that month's venting. :)